bkn snng nk jd org briman,nk kne meyaqini qodho n qodar sume dtg dr  allah,klu mengeluh fail la,kdg2 nkmat y kecik allah bg kat kte pon xsedar,cntohnye tido...brpe byk org dapat pyakit xleh tdo,kte tdo siap kuar air liur basi lg.dah jd peta dunia dah kat bantal,sbb 2 nabi ajar kte doa tdo n bgun tdo,tp brpe byk org amal.
arini kat surau meriah org smbut maulidurrasul,alhmdulillah..
klu kte bc kisah nabi,semasa lahir nabi saw,org y paling gembira sekali masa 2 ialah abu jahal,s0 xde janji allah untuk hidayat bg penyambut hr jadi nabi saw.
nabi saw sgt2 pengampon orgnye,penah dgr hindon istri abu sufiyan,dia lah yg upah wahsyi bunuh hamzah r.a dan mamah jantungnye bapak sedare nabi saw y palin disayangi oleh nabi 2,kerana hindon ummat baginda jgk,nabi ampon kan dia kerana nabi taw baginda dihantar utk ummat bkn utk balas dendam.sbb sifat nabi yg pemaaf 2 lah mmbuatkan hindon y penah brsumpah depan kaabah utk xnak masuk islam,akhirnye berkate..aku xmasuk islam,tapi islam masuk dalm hati ku.
hari ni kte dgn bangganye brkate proud to b muslim..tp byk mne kah sifat nabi ade dlm dr kte..allahua'lam

The Difference between Men and Women in Islam

The Difference between Men and Women in Islam

By Shaykh Yahya ibn Ali Al-Hajuri (may Allah preserve him)

Character and Creation:

• Man was created from dirt and the woman was created from the rib.
• Allah has decreed the menstrual cycle for the woman and not the man.
• Men grow beards women don’t, but if she does it’s permissible for her to shave it.
• Women are deficient in their intellect and religion. i.e A woman witness = ½ a man and during menses she doesn’t pray and fast.
• The men have been given strength over women.
• A man’s semen is white and a woman’s is yellow.
• It’s an obligation to circumcise the man and its sunnah to circumcise the woman.
• Ear piercing is permissible for women and not for men.

Purification:

• The urine of the woman is stronger and more dirtier than the man’s

• It’s legislated for man to redo Wudu if he intends to have relations with his a second time in the same setting.

Prayer:

• The Athaan and Iqamah aren’t a must for the women and it’s incorrect for a woman to call them for men.

• A woman prays behind a man, even if she’s alone. However if a man prays behind another man alone, his prayer is incorrect.

• A woman can’t lead a man in prayer.

• If a woman leads the prayer for other women she must stand in the middle. When a man leads the prayer he stands in front row all alone.

• Congregational prayer is must for the men and not the women.

• The best row for women in congregation is the last and the best row for the men is the first.

• Walking to prayer at night is recommended for men, but not for woman.

• If the imam makes a mistake in prayer the women clap and the men say “ Subhanallah”

• The women don’t have to attend Jumu’ah; and men must attend Jumu’ah .

• Women can’t deliver the sermon for Eid, Jumu’ah, Eclipse prayer and Rain prayer.

• Prayer is invalid when a woman passes in front of a man. And if a man passes in front of another man during prayer, it’s still valid.

• The Eid prayer is an obligation for men, but not for women. However it’s recommended for women to attend if they are safe from fitah.

Funeral Prayer:

• The congregation stands at the head of the deceased man and at the middle of the deceased woman.

• It’s disliked for women to visit the graveyard and it’s recommended for men.

• Women can’t accompany a funeral procession, but men can.

• Women wash and shroud each other and men wash and shroud each other; unless they were spouses.

Zakah and Sadaqah:

• Women are encouraged more than men to give charity.

• A woman can give Zakah to her children and husband , but a man can’t pay Zakah to his children and wife .

• Redemption is a duty for the man and not the woman. This can occur if a man intentionally had relations with his wife during daylight in Ramadan.

• A woman can’t fast voluntarily unless she has her husband’s permission. A man doesn’t need his wife’s permission to fast voluntarily.

Hajj

• A woman must have a Mahram when travelling.

• A woman mustn’t raise her voice during the Talbeeyah; and a man should raise voice.

• A woman’s Ihram is the clothes she wears for the journey.

• A man can do Ramal-a slight jog between Safa and Marwa, and around the Ka’bah; and a woman shouldn’t.

• It’s not recommended for the women to try and kiss or touch the black stone during crowding.

• A man can ascend on Safa and Marwa, however a woman mustn’t.

Aqeeqah:

• For a girl one sheep is sacrificed and for a boy two.

Jihad, Battle and Leadership:

• There were no women Prophets or Messengers.

• A woman can’t be a leader for the people or the military.

• The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took the pledge from the men through a handshake and from the women by speech.

• Women aren’t obliged to perform Jihad unlike the men. However there are certain conditions that must adhered to before the men embark on this obligation.

Marriage , Divorce, Iddah, Kulla’:

• Women are given the Sadaq, not the men.

• Men have the authority for divorce, marriage and giving the Mahr, not the women.

• A man can marry a woman from Ahul Kitab if he knows she frees from Zina. A woman doesn’t have this right.

• A man can have more than one wife. A woman can’t have more than one husband.

• The Waleemah and wedding are the responsibility on the man not the woman.

• It’s permissible for the women to beat the Duff at their wedding. This act isn’t permissible for the men.

• Maintenance and support are the duty of the men not the women.

• A woman is under the authority of her husband. A man isn’t under the authority of his wife.

• A woman can’t have anyone visit her home unless she gets her husband’s permission first. A Man doesn’t need permission for visitors in his home.

• The Angels curse the woman if her husband separates from her bed. The husband doesn’t receive this curse.

• A woman must have her husband’s permission before she leaves home. A man doesn’t need his wife’s permission to leave home.

• A man doesn’t have an ‘Idda unless he wants to marry his ex-wife’s sister or aunt. However if he divorces his fourth wife and wants to remarry, then he must wait until his ex-wife concludes her “Iddah.

Dress and Adornment:

• It’s recommended for a woman to adorn herself in her home for her husband.

• It’s haraam for a woman to imitate a man in his dress.

• It’s an obligation for the women to sag their clothes below her ankles. Sagging pants and thoubs below the ankles is Haraam for men.

• A woman can’t change her clothes unless she’s in her own home. This act doesn’t apply to the men.

• A woman must wear Hijab: cover her face and body.

• Women can wear jewelry.

• Men can’t wear silk, but women can.

cinta...
sume insan dapat cinta allah,samaada dia tahu @ xtahu.cinta adalah satu dr sifat2Nya iaitu arrahim.
Rahman allah ade pd sume makhluknye, hatta seekor babi pon,akan kasih pd anaknye.dikatakan sayang allah ade 99,1 je allah bg  kat sume makhluk kat dunia ni. mnybbkan serigala pon sayang pada anak nye,99lg allah akn bg kat akhirat sok...yang satu 2 jgak la,mnybbkan qais amiri jadi sewel sbb cintakan laila.sian sian...

duniaaaaaaaaaaa
betul sgt allah bg tw ank n isteri ni fitnah bg kmu.payah nak pahamkan???
tapi itulah hakikatnya zaman skang ni.unless hidup kamu betul2 mirip@10%drpd ciri2 sahabat nabi saw.nak dptkan 5%pon payah,sebab ape lg??maksud hidop nak jadi pencinta dunia...sadis

teka-teki

Suatu hari Imam Al-Ghazali berkumpul dengan murid-muridnya dan kemudian beliau memberikan pertanyaan teka-teki…

Imam Ghazali : “Apakah yang paling dekat dengan diri kita di dunia ini?”
Murid 1 : Orang tua
Murid 2 : Guru
Murid 3 : Teman
Imam Ghazali : Semua jawaban itu benar. Tetapi yang paling dekat dengan kita ialah MATI. Sebab itu adalah janji Allah SWT bahwa setiap yang berjiwa pasti akan merasakan mati (Surah Ali-Imran : 185).

Imam Ghazali : “Apa yang paling jauh dari kita di dunia ini?”
Murid 1 : Negeri Cina
Murid 2 : Bulan
Murid 3 : Matahari
Iman Ghazali : Semua jawaban itu benar. Tetapi yang paling benar adalah MASA LALU. Bagaimanapun kita, apapun kendaraan kita, tetap kita tidak akan dapat kembali ke masa yang lalu. Oleh sebab itu kita harus menjaga hari ini, hari esok dan hari-hari yang akan datang dengan perbuatan yang sesuai dengan ajaran Agama.

Imam Ghazali : “Apa yang paling besar di dunia ini?”
Murid 1 : Gunung
Murid 2 : Matahari
Murid 3 : Bumi
Imam Ghazali : Semua jawaban itu benar, tapi yang besar sekali adalah HAWA NAFSU (Surah Al A’raf : 179).

“Dan sesungguhnya Kami jadikan untuk (isi neraka Jahanam) kebanyakan dari jin dan manusia, mereka mempunyai hati, tetapi tidak dipergunakannya untuk memahami (ayat-ayat Allah SWT) dan mereka mempunyai mata (tetapi) tidak dipergunakannya untuk melihat (tanda-tanda kekuasaan Allah SWT), dan mereka mempunyai telinga (tetapi) tidak dipergunakannya untuk mendengar (ayat-ayat Allah SWT). Mereka itu sebagai binatang ternak, bahkan mereka lebih sesat lagi. Mereka itulah orang-orang yang lalai”.

Imam Ghazali : “Apa yang paling berat di dunia?”
Murid 1 : Baja
Murid 2 : Besi
Murid 3 : Gajah
Imam Ghazali : Semua itu benar, tapi yang paling berat adalah MEMEGANG AMANAH (Surah Al-Azab : 72).

“Sesungguhnya Kami telah mengemukakan amanat[*] kepada langit, bumi dan gunung-gunung, maka semuanya enggan untuk memikul amanat itu dan mereka khawatir akan mengkhianatinya, dan dipikullah amanat itu oleh manusia. Sesungguhnya manusia itu amat zalim dan amat bodoh”.

[*]: Yang dimaksud dengan amanat di sini ialah tugas-tugas keagamaan.
Tumbuh-tumbuhan, binatang, gunung, dan malaikat semua tidak mampu ketika Allad SWT meminta mereka menjadi khalifah (pemimpin) di dunia ini. Tetapi manusia dengan sombongnya berebut-rebut menyanggupi permintaan Allah SWT sehingga banyak manusia masuk ke neraka karena gagal memegang amanah.

Imam Ghazali : “Apa yang paling ringan di dunia ini?”
Murid 1 : Kapas
Murid 2 : Angin
Murid 3 : Debu
Imam Ghazali : Semua jawaban kamu itu benar, tapi yang paling ringan sekali di dunia ini adalah MENINGGALKAN SHOLAT. Gara-gara pekerjaan kita atau urusan dunia, kita tinggalkan sholat.

Imam Ghazali : “Apa yang paling tajam sekali di dunia ini?”
Murid-murid dengan serentak menjawab : Pedang
Imam Ghazali : Itu benar, tapi yang paling tajam sekali didunia ini adalah LIDAH MANUSIA. Karena melalui lidah, manusia dengan mudahnya menyakiti hati dan melukai perasaan saudaranya sendiri.

La Tahzan
bismillah..
Sume org kat dunia ni ade masalah,dlm syurga je xde msaalah.
org2 batil nampak dgn asbab selesaikan masalah,cth klu ade senjata cggih bleh jd hero dunia,blek kalahkn sape sje.
org beriman bl ade masalah@pape je situasi,mereka xnmpak makhluk ciptaan allah,tp mereka nampak kpd kudratullah,sebb xde ape pon yg brlaku kat semesta alam ni,even sehelai daun y gugur di hutan amazon nun,melainkan xkan gugur daun 2 tanpa izinNya,so kecik py hal je sayang..
allah kate crilah pertolangan dgn sabar n solat,ssguhnnye ia berat kecuali bg org yg khusyuk.
sy ade trdengar klu kte ade masalah@pape keadaan,solatla 12rkt solat hajat,dlm ktb myskat meriwayat,nabi s.a.w mengajarka pd sahabt.
kaifiatnye,solat 2rkt,habis salam terus smbung jng brkate2,rkt 1 bc qursi 11x,rkt 2 bc qulya ayyuhalkafirun 9x,2rkt seterusnye qursi 9x,qulya 7x,seterusnye qursi 7x,qulya 5x,seterusnye kurangkan dlm bil ganjil,kesannye mmg menkjubkan...yg pntg mesti mau yaqin,pas2 doa dgn nangeh2,pasti allah kesian ngan kite..wallahua'lam

Terpinggirnya Sunnah pd dri Ummat Nabi s.a.w

bismillah.
mcm2 kte dgr pasal bencana kt timur jauh ni.gempa bumi la,topan la,sume makhluk allah marah kat manusia.angin,air,api,tanah xde keberkatan spt zaman2 sahabt dulu.pasalpe??
pernah pd zaman umar r.hu,ade budak kecik tgh nangeh,umar ty pslpe kau nangeh?budak 2 cakap mak dia suh dia g kdai bli myk,ttp myk dah trtmpah,umar ty tumpah kat mne?budak 2 pon tnjukkan tmptnye.umar cakap kat tanah tmpt tumpah myk 2,wahai bumi kluarkan balik myk dr dalm kau,atau aku tanam mayat org xsemayang kat cni,la 2 jugak myk kuar dr bumi dan masuk dlm botol bdak 2.(al isobah)bleh bayang cmne khbatan diorg,sume makluk tnduk kat diorg.byk lg kesah2 mrk2 y trdhulu.letih nak tuleh.
sahabat2 dlu mncintai allah n rasul lebih dr dr merka sniri.merka sntiase ikut sunnah nabi hatta dlm tndas pon,xde 1sunnsah pon yg dtggl.
ari ni kite tgk seniri la,xyah ckp psal solat kat msjid,kat umah pon xsemayang.
allah xpnah zalim pd hambanya.pd mu jelah yaalah ku sampaikan keluhan ku ini,jng la azab mu smpai kat negeri kami ni,dosa byk lg yaalah